Why do people seek therapy?
People come into therapy for many reasons. Some need to respond to unexpected changes in their lives, others seek self-exploration to create more authenticity and meaningfulness in life. Sometimes coping skills are overwhelmed by guilt, doubt, anxiety, or despair, therapy can help regain balance and a fresh perspective, opening the door to feeling more confident and at ease. Therapy can provide support, teach problem-solving skills, and help you use tools to improve depression, anxiety, lack of confidence, unresolved childhood issues, bereavement, stress, and relationship challenges. People who seek psychotherapy are willing to take responsibility for their actions, work towards self-change and create greater awareness in their lives. They often are self-motivated and have many strengths. With support and direction most people find therapy enables them to get to a place they want to be.
What can I expect in a therapy session?
During sessions you are expected to talk about the primary concerns and issues in your life. A session lasts 50 minutes, but some people request longer sessions. Usually weekly sessions are best. Some people who are in crisis or extreme distress need more than one session per week, at least until the crisis passes. During the time between sessions it is beneficial to think about and process what was discussed. At times, you may be asked to take certain actions outside of the therapy sessions, such as reading a relevant book or keeping records. For therapy to “work,” you want to be an active participant, both in and outside of the therapy sessions.
What benefits can I expect from working with a therapist?
A number of benefits are available from participating in psychotherapy. Often it is helpful to experience that someone understands and to be able to talk openly. Therapy can provide a fresh perspective on a difficult problem or point you in the direction of a solution, you may not have thought about. Many people find therapy to be a tremendous asset in enhancing personal growth and improving skills in managing interpersonal relationships, family concerns, and the hassles of daily life. The benefits you obtain from therapy depend on how well you use the process and put into practice what you learn. Some of the benefits available from therapy include:
- Attaining a better understanding of yourself and your personal goals and values
- Developing skills for improving your relationships
- Finding resolution to the issues or concerns that led you to seek therapy
- Find new ways to cope with stress and anxiety
- Managing anger, depression, and other emotional pressures
- Improving communications skills – learn how to listen to others, and have others listen to you
- Getting “unstuck” from unhealthy patterns – breaking old behaviors and develop new ones
- Discovering new ways to solve problems
- Improving your self-esteem and boosting self-confidence
What if I don’t know what my goals are for therapy?
If you aren’t sure what your goals are for therapy, your first task is to figure that out. It may take several sessions before a direction is clarified. During the course of therapy your goals may change. However, establishing a direction for therapy will help you get the most out of the experience.
Do you accept insurance? How does insurance work?
There is a confusing array of insurance arrangements. My clients pay their fee at the time of consultation. I produce a statement of services which contains the information needed to submit for insurance reimbursement. Click here for additional information on fees and insurance.
Is therapy confidential?
The law protects the confidentiality of all communications between a client and a psychotherapist. Information is not disclosed without written permission. However, there are exceptions to this rule. Exceptions include:
Suspected child abuse or dependent adult or elder abuse. The therapist is required by law to report this to the appropriate authorities immediately.
If a client is threatening serious bodily harm to another person/s. The therapist must notify the police and inform the intended victim.
If a client intends to harm himself or herself. The therapist will make every effort to enlist their cooperation in insuring their safety. If they do not cooperate, further measures may be taken without their permission in order to ensure their safety.
